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10 Signs Your Audience is Listening

Do you know if your audience is listening? Can they be on a phone and still listen? How do you entice them to listen?

It’s a given. Attention spans are shrinking. Your audience decides in seconds whether you are interesting and if your message is worth listening to.

Here are common clues that your audience is listening.

Eye Contact: Are they making steady eye contact with the speaker? Are they looking at the slides on the screen? 

·  Body Language: Audience members who are leaning forward with open body language are signaling that they are receptive to the message. Other body language signs are

Head Nodding: When you see audience members are nodding their heads in agreement that’s a signal that they are engaged.

-Facial Expressions such as smiling or raised eye brows can indicate agreement or surprise.

Verbal Responses: In a small group, members may comment or ask relevant questions, Statements such as "yes," or "I see," vindicate active listening. Laughter is also a strong indicator of audience attention.

Note-Taking: Audience members who find the information valuable may often take note to aid in the listening process.

Participation: Asking or answering questions, raising their hands, and actively participating in exercises or activities show that the audience is actively listening.

Mirroring: When rapport is strong audience members may find themselves mirroring the body language of the speaker.

Feedback: After the presentation, if participants offer constructive feedback or stay around to ask follow-up questions you’ll know they were listening.

Silence: Don’t assume the audience isn’t listening if there is silence. If a topic is complex or the audience is naturally reserved it doesn’t mean they’re not listening. One professional speaker thought he was bombing because the audience was silent. He tried every technique to engage them but he just couldn’t read them. When he concluded, they gave him a standing ovation and rushed the stage to talk to him.

Remember that each audience is different. Listening can be impacted by culture, time of the presentation, the environment, and their emotional state. You may not have control over all these things but you do have the ability to be interesting Be open and give it your best. You can gauge their interest by looking for the 10 signs of listening.

What listening clues do you look for in your audience?

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Do You Suffer From Verbal Diarrhea?

Situation: Donald was a director-level manager who was getting complaints from his boss that his voice-mails were long-winded and that his rather business-like demeanor was failing to gain buy-in from his staff. One of Donald's biggest problems was that he didn't listen. His conversations were like running monologues and it was difficult for others to break in. His assignments lacked the detailed information required to get the job done. Solution: Through the Exec-U-Lead coaching program, I worked with Donald on developing a concise message. The target was getting Donald to deliver a 30 second voice-mail message, which he nailed. In the next phase, Donald practiced listening and relationship skills by sharing something personal and asking people about themselves. Result: Donald's boss was pleased. He reported that Donald's voice mails were now concise and that his personality was coming through to his staff at meetings. He was listening more and explaining the purpose of team tasks. Donald felt good about being more respected.

Do you know people who talk incessantly? Do they leave long lingering voice mails? They can learn to cut to the chase and listen more effectively.